At Joel’s funeral, I was asked if I wanted to give over a eulogy. I politely declined the offer. Growing up *Public Speaking* and singing were not encouraged for the female gender. What happens if she’s a *they* now? Or as Joel liked to describe: *androgynous*. I wonder. I haven’t *asked a Rabbi* or a Jewish authoritative figure about it.

DJ 8 Ball and I at Brachts in Hanover Park, Illinios. May he rest in peace. 💔