When i watched “The White Lotus”, I couldn’t help but resonate with the word *appendage*. Now that im married thankfully, a part of me feels like an accessory to my successful and charismatic spouse. I attend the galas, the weddings ect but all of this can feel super overwhelming. I love getting all dolled up dont get me wrong, but im kinda used to having *main character energy* being that ive been single for almost half my life. Im thankful this platform pivoted to a bit more self expression so that I too, have a sounding board that cheers ME on regularly. I guess what I’m trying to convey is: I feel seen here, so thank you for reading and understanding my thoughts during these revolutionary 15 years. It means alot to me. G-d bless.

